The Search for Love: Why Finding a Compatible Partner is So Hard

Are you just desperate for sex? Or are you committed to a relationship entirely for the sake of touch? Or are you one of those skin hunger people? If yes, then you really need to reconsider your fantasies. Being committed to a relationship due to physical intimacy will lead you to nowhere but alone darkness and in-depth loneliness.
According to the survey conducted by the pew research center, more than 50% of single adults believe it is hard to date someone as it was a decade ago. Also, to no surprise, it states that the evil people behind the mask in online dating apps are the cause of harassment that women are experiencing, leading them to mistrust and past traumas.

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Well, if you are finding yourself in a difficult position to fit into a modern dating algorithm and thinking that you will remain single forever and would die alone, let me enlighten you that there are reasons why it is becoming harder and harder with time to find a compatible partner. But don’t lose hope since I will be making you aware of those so you can become even from the odds by improving those flaws.

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Post toxic relationship trauma:
Many people have unhealed wounds due to the destructive and toxic household environments that they have lived in. Their relationship with their parents wasn’t overwhelming, causing them emotional damage and leading to trust and attachment issues.
Also, some people can’t move on from their exes and are still emotionally attached to them, causing loss to their mental growth and challenges.
Setting the bar high:
Some people have unrealistic expectations in the name of searching for love. They set their standards so high that it results in hurting themselves. It's okay to respect your values and demands some qualities in looking for a compatible partner but making this thing over the river could make it difficult, or sometimes it could be impossible for you to date.
Setting up your priorities:
Many people list their careers and goals above their love life. They do not want to remain single, but dating nowadays needs time and attention, and since these people are busy with their life, the occasionally right person might have come to them and knocked on the door, yet they didn’t bother to value it.

Not being familiar to modern dating culture:
People of generational gaps still crave for their old hacks to have a chat with random woman and it’s completely fine and not moving with technology can cause a great set back.
Apart from that, some women with close minds couldn’t understand these dating apps algorithm that even if they try they end up being with a wrong person causing mishaps.
Still in their immaturity phase:
Love isn't a piece of cake but a skyscraper whose foundation bed is feelings and emotions, and these both come with life experiences and age. Immaturity in love is not accepting flaws while craving for a good part. Also, you might find it complicated with a compatible partner because you aren't familiar with the relationship skills.