RE: Gratitude vs. Debt: What Do We Truly Owe Our Parents?

This was such a powerful first entry into Real Talk . I love how you blended cultural realities with personal reflection especially pointing out how sacrifices, while genuine, can sometimes be turned into a “cultural debt.” Your examples were very relatable, from children being pressured into careers or marriages, to the Yoruba saying you shared.

The way you concluded with balance honoring parents with love and respect but not at the cost of one’s future or freedom was a very strong message. Thought-provoking and beautifully written!