The act of de-centering is one of the hardest things ever but so rewarding when done rightly. I mean, the freedom that comes with living for yourself and not the validation of others (especially men) is fantastic. I sometimes struggle to not care about the validation of others, but I hope and pray eventually I grow strong enough. ❤
It's a work a progress. A constant journey to work on. So, soon enough, you'll get the hang of it.🥰