My career my priority//Wk203

Do you prioritize your relationships or your career more? Explain. Remember to use your own photos

It is good to have a stable relationship, but I will prefer to prioritize my career more not that one's partner is not important, but considering the experiences I have had in relationship made me understand that I need to build myself, pour more energy into myself before sticking to a second party.

Career is important to me than love because it provides lasting passion and satisfaction of who I want to be, the zeal for work can be liberating. Having a stable career sometimes is equivalent to having a stable finance and personally I don't know how to ask people for money, that's why I put my career first so I can take care of my needs, I wouldn't have to beg all the time before buying little things I need, asking for money from people too much comes with some disrespect, if you have to ask a man for money always making you look like a liability and lazy person.

One of the things I love doing

I have been in a relationship where I devoted all my time and energy, still yet it didn't work out,I create more time thinking this will help build the bond, not knowing I was wasting my time, always claiming he is busy and made it look like I was disturbing and nagging him. From the moment he told me his job is his main girlfriend while his girlfriend is the side chick.

Enjoying me time

My mindset changed that creating too much time and being too available sometimes makes people feel you are jobless and do not have anything meaningful to do with your time, they don't know that you are trying to show love and squeezing out space out of the time you have for yourself, this is why I will always put my career first, I wouldn't want to neglect my dream and passion at my own detriment, until I find a partner who will create time for me the same way I create time for him, so it can be balanced.

This is my entry for this week

All pictures are mine

All thanks to @galenkp for the weekly topic