The difference between offering help and taking orders | Larry's Hunting Report - Tuesday, June 11, 2024

4 months ago(edited)

Well, it's just me ranting tho. Sorry, for any offense 🙏

First of all, I like helping people, especially elders. I'm not taking any orders and I help them because I want to. I still have my time management and I always try to stick to my schedule. So, I'm helping in my free time only. If an elder asks me for something that takes a long time, I'll politely refuse as I just have some amount of time to help them.

Sometimes arrogant people come to me and order me to help them too just because they see I'm helping others. Why do I say order? Those people didn't ask if I was busy or not and they are people who don't like to get a "no" response. Welp, I always say to them, "I have something to do after this." Tbh, I answered that just because I don't like being ordered. Even sometimes the tasks are troublesome like "Do it my way" or something they can do but are too lazy to do 😑. My brain: "I'm not your caretaker or your junior... WHO ARE YOU?! Even, my friend never orders me like that and you're not my friend." Tbh, it's funny to see that my discord server's usual sentence is "Do you have time?" 🤣

Humans are quite funny tho. I remember one experience that I've always remembered until now. It was when I was in senior high school. I was sitting alone in front of my laptop doing some homework before I went home as I always did. Suddenly, a junior high school boy came to me and said arrogantly, "Do you have a tissue?!" I answered impolitely while I was still focusing on my homework, "No! I don't have it." Tbh, I really didn't have any tissue at that time. Do you know what he did after that? He said, "Stingy" and spit on my face. If the school has no beating rules, maybe I already beat him. What I can do is just glare at him in front of his girlfriend who gets a runny nose. It's a waste of time to deal with someone who can't even run outside and buy a pack of tissues just for a beloved girlfriend. I just hope his girlfriend breaks up with him. He's not worthy. I don't even know why his girlfriend wants a boyfriend like him, an impolite, troublemaker, and I don't think he has money just to buy a tissue when she needs it. I always remembered what my grandmother said, "You need to be prepared if you want to get a girlfriend. If you don't have money, never think of dating someone."

The beating rules make both the victim and the perpetrator get expelled.

Well, in my viewpoint:

Offering help	Taking order
I can say No depending on the tasks	I need to do whatever the tasks are
Do it my way	I must do what they asked me to do exactly the same as they do
The one who gets help mustn't expect too much	The one who gives orders can expect a good result
There's no payment requirement as I'm the one who offers it	I demand the payment or return

I learned from some people's experiences. Sometimes we need to know who needs who first before taking a measurement. Like a symbiosis in nature. Never take any parasitism in your life because it'll lead to chaos. Family and friends should be mutualism or commensalism. Beware of someone who talks to you like you need him and he needs you. Sometimes you can take a step back to think... Is it really like that? What are the benefits and the drawbacks? Based on my experience, someone who talks like that is a parasite. They think of their position as too high and make people dependent on them. I always ignore someone like that and prefer to have the same understanding. Customers like friends are better than a highly mighty customer who talks like a king, needs to be served with many discounts and negotiable prices, and top priority. If a customer ever uses the words, "Customer is a king", I'll always answer with, "Then, I'm a god" 🤣. We're both humans. If you don't respect me, why do I need to respect you? 🤷‍♂️

I hope we can understand people more and in return people can get more understanding about us. Have a nice day~

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