RE: From The Diary of a Former UnHoUsED Individual...

It's a difficult thing for a lot of people. Choosing to separate yourself from your trauma means that A) you can no longer play victim and blame things on it, and B) you have to actively work on yourself to improve the damage from trauma. And a lot of people don't want to do that -- "But it's hard! 😭"

Why wouldn't you want to come out stronger? Why would anyone choose to remain "weak"? Just boggles my mind. Society isn't able to make an individual a better person. At some point there needs to be accountability...