Choosing Peace But Not Losing Love.

Hi everyone, it's another week with the Hive ghana's prompt. This one ehn… it is not a small matter at all, So imagine meeting someone that just feels right like everything just clicks , the vibes is there, the love is very real, and you are genuinely happy with them , and then boom, your family starts acting like the person is your worst enemy, that kind of situation is tough oh.

If I find myself in that kind of suitation where I have met the love of my life but my family does not like him , omo I will not lie o, I will not run away with the person, see no matter how much I love him, I just don’t believe in doing things secretly or in a way that will break family bonds, it is not proper, and see honestly , I feel like getting your family’s blessings is kinda very important, especially in things like marriage and life partnerships you get?

But also at the same time, I will no’t just carry my bag and say, “Okay, since my family does not like you, let me leave you na .” No that one will not happen, see if this person is someone that truly makes me happy and I see a future with him, then I will stand by him and I will try every possible way to make my family see what I see in him

You know that sometimes families can be too quick to judge, maybe based on past experiences, tribe, religion, or just assumptions maybe, but love is not one-size-fits-all, yeah they might not understand it at first, but I will patiently help them see reason, I will make sure to talk to them. I will bring him around in small doses, I will also give them time, and in every way, I will show them that he is my choice , not out of rebellion, but from a place of well placed maturity.

Yeah... If I have to sit them down and explain again and again, I will do it, If I have to involve someone they respect to speak on our behalf, then no wahala, What I will not do is fight fire for fire ,because at the end of the day, I want peace both with my family and in my relationship, that's the goal.

And also to be honest, if the person I love truly loves me too in return, he will try be patient and willing to go through that process with me, We will figure it out together somehow.

So no, I won’t run away. I won’t give up either,. I will find the balance between love and family because both are important to me, and one way or the other, I believe they will come around, love deserves a chance… and so does understanding too.

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