Can anyone solve your problems better than you?
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What do you do after experiencing a terrible heartbreak from the one you dearly love? Commit suicide, stay depressed or evaluate the entire relationship and learn from the journey so far.
Most people dwell on suicidal thoughts and depression rather than learn from the incident. Truth be told, it's very difficult to manage heartbreak when you truly loved the person in question.
In my native homeland, after the death of a person, many mourners will appear and make you feel better for the meantime, but after the mourning period, the reality of the situation becomes visible and you're alone facing it by yourself. At this point you either encourage yourself or you get depressed and fall sick.
At this moment what you need is to encourage yourself and look for ways to come out of the problem. Remember that everyone is facing one challenge or the other and also needs equal time to face the realities of their problem and think about solutions for those problems.
If you need help, seek for help but solve the problem. Every problem has 50/50 percentage for the helper and the actual owner of the problem. Most people wait until their problem is completely solved by a third party. With the current hardship ravaging the world, people aren't interested in solving other people's problems that they'll not benefit from. I'm not saying that there are no genuine helpers, but most take advantage of people's situation to inflict them or place stringent conditionality that'll result abusing them.
The female folks are usually at the receiving end of this conditionality where I come from. A lady will have a pressing academic need of $20, once she run to the opposite sex to help her, most of them will ask for sex before they can offer her help.
This lady on a normal day will not seek for such a help if she has the means but due to the urgency of the problem, she could decide to seek for help. She could solve this problem if she's a member of the hive blockchain and other online affiliated jobs. She has to look for a job whether online or offline to help her solve such a problem.
The truth is that people can only try in their little ways to reduce the weight of the problem but it's only you that can solve that problem. Even if someone gives you the financial help that you need to start up a business, you still have the problem of executing and making the business work and grow.
The essence of this post is for you to take responsibility in tackling your problems and others will only assist you to achieve the solution you need.